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The first thing we had to do was get a hat for him, the sun was pretty bright. He rode all around the house on the sidewalk, and then down the block to look at the progress on renovations on a house two doors down (he said there hadn't been much done since he saw it last fall!) Then he wanted to look at all the gutters we installed above the doors to prevent icy sidewalks, and I had to run the garage door opener for him a number of times so he could watch it from both inside and outside the garage.Dale checking out the new gutter above the back door.
Much to Dale's disappointment, this is as close as Nermal would get to Dale's electric wheelchair. So I carried her over so he could give her a little scratch between the ears.
I think he really enjoyed it, but he later told me he was glad to get back 'home' - and that is how he really thinks of the nursing home now I think. He tells me over and over how wonderful they are to him and the nurses and staff aren't appreciated enough.
We are hoping to get him back for a small picnic on the 4th of July if the weather holds out.

Dale received so many cards and he enjoyed discovering who remembered him. Surprisingly he got a card from three of his previous teachers, (one Sunday school teacher, one elementary teacher and one high school teacher) still alive and living in Arlington. He explained to me that in those days a teaching certificate only took 6 or 9 weeks to get, and these teachers weren't too much older than he.
Cards received for Dale's 80th birthday.
He also told us that he will never forget his favorite birthday gift of all time. It was back when he was 6 or 7 years old. At that time, they received a lot of goods from the Sears catalog. Any order placed by mail on a Saturday was sure to be filled and returned before the next Wednesday, unless bad weather, then it would be in the mailbox on Thursday. He made it known he liked two items in the current catalog, both pencil boxes. One was 19 cents and the other with 2 drawers was 29 cents. He said he was so happy and surprised when he opened the package from Sears that day to discover the 2 drawer box! What a treasure.Mike-George-Mom-Jerry-Rita-Bonnie-Paige-Peggy passing around some old photos and trying to identify ancestors
Bonnie with that big smile - showing off her son Sam to Delores and Grandma Rita (Bonnie & Sam had matching pants - they were so cute)
Mom brought up some stained glass for George and Bonnie to pick out as they requested. Later they decided to drive through Arlington on the way to the airport in Sioux Falls and look at more of Mom's stained glass and take some back with them.
I really enjoyed the ride we took later on out to the farm and then Ray drove us around the neighborhood to see all the old places Mom and Rita used to go as kids and also to see Stephanie's new home. George and Bonnie were following us in their car with Rita. We ended up back at Jenkins Nursing to visit with Jack some more. He seemed pretty good yet on Saturday and glad to have the company. He looked so much better than the other visits I'd had with him last winter. Rita had made arrangements to have supper with an old school girlfriend, so Mom decided she wanted to get back to Arlington for the evening mass. She was pretty tired again, but I really think she enjoyed her time up in Watertown.
Here is a panoramic view of the O'Toole farm - Leland is the only one living out there now - unless you count the many cats and kittens and one dog he has for company.
Leland and Mike visiting out in the back yard.
Mom visiting with Leland and dog Jack by his pool.
Peggy and Aunt Rita look over the remains of the gardens from days gone by.
The old flower bed looks pretty good - Leland keeps color all year round by using the artificial species - also a favorite shady spot for a cat.
Leland discussing a favorite old photo with Mom and Mike
Little Sam just couldn't stay awake out on the farm - wish we could all sleep that soundly!
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Sisters Marguerite & Rita standing in front of one of the original lilac bushes planted when they were children.
Bonnie Fleming & Ray Stern - the "out-laws"
This is back at Jenkins Home when George is getting a cheek swab from Jack to take back and get a DNA analysis done on the sample - he hopes to match it up with someone over in Ireland.
At the end of the Mom kept saying she wished she could get up there more often to be with Jack, but just can't drive anymore and Dad isn't able to get out as much as he used to. I know she was a little nervous in the days before Rita came up and worried it would all be way too much for Jack and maybe we shouldn't overwhelm him. But I think she relaxed a lot after seeing Rita and Jack both.